CB009 - ‘More Confidence’ What Does It Really Mean?
I say to you “What is it you want?”, you know, “Do you want more confidence?”
And you say “Yes!”
I say “More confidence? What does that mean to you?”
“Oh, I don’t know, I just want more confidence.”
So let’s assume that I you know, change the subject now and say, we’re walking down the road and you’ve just told me you want more money and I spot on the floor a penny and I say “There you are, pick that penny up.”
And you say “Ach, it’s not enough, it’s too small it’s not worth the effort.”
I say “You wanted more money and now there’s a penny on the floor you don’t want it. Why?”
You say “It’s not enough.”
“It’s more than you had before, it’s one penny more, so why is it you don’t want it?”
And it’s the same with your confidence, if you’re not specific about where you want to be and when you want to be confident, how you want to feel in that situation then it’s very difficult for you to achieve anything because you don’t have a goal.
Listen to the podcast to find out how to get specific and get the confidence help you want.